By Parker | February 3, 2010 - 12:45 pm - Posted in mission

Hello Everyone!!

Well well well i was TRAAANNSFERRED! I was very happy to leave especially because my next area and comp are awesome. I am back in the Jardim do Sol stake, my second area was the jardim do sol ward. Now I am a ZL in the Parigot de Souza ward. And whats cool is they are building a new chapel here so my ward meets in the same building as my old ward! How cool is that?

My comp is Elder Rossi from Brasília, the capitol of Brazil. He is a VERY cool guy and we get along great. We cleaned the whole house already (it was a MESS) and I must say it’s a NICE house. I love being back in Curitiba!! It is so nice here. The mission has a new assistant and a new secretary which is nice because the mission was needing some big changes.

Well to be honest there isn’t much more to talk about. Unfortunately we didn’t have any baptisms this past week but I am positive we will have many in my new area. The beat the record in December in this stake with 20 baptisms! I will just have to get up to 25 :)

I promise next week I will write more about my new area, companion, and our investigators. Have a great week and I look forward to getting tons of letters and packages from you all!!

Love,
Elder Boyack

By Parker | January 27, 2010 - 2:20 pm - Posted in mission

Dear All,

Due to the small amount of email, I have 40 MINUTES to write all this! Thats a lot of time and i don´t have that much to talk about.. The weather has been ok here.. Paranaguá is weird because in one day it is hot and sunny then later rains. It happens almost every day. The big Carnaval holiday is coming up so there are groups of “bands” all over the city which basically consist of a bunch of guys beating like crazy on drums. The bad part is their practice starts at 10:00 at NIGHT. Needless to say, getting to sleep just got harder :)

Today was pretty cool! We played soccer at our chapel and the teams ended up with all the americans on one team (that always happens) and i am proud to say the good ´ol USA team is UNDEFEATED!! Haha the brazillians are furious. Can you imagine a group of brazillians coming and beating us at basketball or baseball or whatever? That would NEVER happen. So to have us come to their country and beat them is quite humiliating for them haha. MAN it feels good to win!

This past week we had a baptism. Its a girl who has a way messed up family and is currently living with a member family in our ward. She has been going for quite a while but would never let us mark a baptismal date with her. Then one day when we were teaching another lady there we marked with the lady and this girl decided she wanted to finally get baptized! We were all still a little unsure though if her mom (who lives in Curitiba) would let her but when we called her her mom was really happy and even wanted to come out to see the baptism! It truly was a miracle and the girl is VERY intelligent!

This next week will be transfers… i am so curious as to what will happen with me!! I have been here in Paranaguá for 3 transfers (4.5 months) which is the average time, but it is possible I stay one more. To be honest i would like to get out of here, Paranaguá is great but I would NEVER live here.. and it helped me realize how much i really love Curitiba!! We will find out Monday night then transfers happen next pday so it is possible next week i will be emailing you from another place.. cross your fingers!!

Well yeah thats about it. I would like to share a thought i had this week. There is a quote that is one of my favorites from Jospeh Smith that goes like this, “After all that has been said, the greatest and most important duty is to preach the gospel”. Now i want you to think about what he said. How does this apply to you? Certainly he doesn´t mean each and every one of you should go out in the streets crying “REPENT YE!” and things like that. As Gordon B. Hinckley said, we all have our own “sphere”. Now how can you preach the gospel in your “sphere”? Maybe its talk to the mailman about his religion. Maybe its send a dozen cookies over to the lady who is always alone. There are endless possibilities. Who remembers the second greatest commandment?

Matthew 22:37-39
Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.
This is the first and great commandment.
And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.

Now how can we love our neighbor? Heber J. Grant once said, “The best way in the world to show our love for our neighbor is to go forth and proclaim the gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ.” May we ponder as to how each of us can do this. I testify that as you do this, you will be immensely blessed. You will feel happier and have more of the Holy Ghost in your lives.

Have a wonderful week and go be a missionary!!

Love,
Elder Parker Boyack

By Parker | January 20, 2010 - 9:52 am - Posted in mission

Dear People of the NOrth,

Greetings! I totally agree with Ryan, portuguese is so much better! I have found that i actually struggle when i pray in english haha. I feel my portuguese has improved alot in this area. People have been complimenting me on how well i speak and sometimes think i am brazillian! Sometimes i answer our cell phone and the other elders think i am my brazillian comp.. haha i love it! I am not sure how but in these next 6 months i am really going to try to better my portuguese. I want to master it. SPEAKING of next 6 months, i have reached my 1 year and 6 months mark! HOLY COW I AM OLD! It doesnt seem like it though.. President will be leaving in the end of june and i leave in the middle of july so i asked him if before he goes we (my group) could have lunch at his house and if he could give us the final blessing he gives all the missionaries going out. He agreed and so we will be his last group to go out, im so excited!!

My comp woke up sick this morning and wouldnt leave the bathroom lol. We had tacos and pizza last night (tacos actually dont exist here, but the bishops wife makes some pretty dang good ones). It has been HOT HOT HOT. Yesterday was probably the hottest day in my whole life. I was sweating so much i thought i would melt! I have been hearing about all the crazy earthquakes and stuff, can anyone say LAST DAYS!? Oh speaking about that i had an interesting “discussion” with a Jehovas Witness. I really enjoyed it because i learned a lot about their religion. I have no interest to do theology or anything like that but i really do like understanding other peoples doctrines and beleifs.

Unfortunately Andreia who was supposed to be baptized last week didnt pass the interview because she smoked. Then she has pretty much dissappeared, i think she has started going to her friends house a lot. So today we will finally find her and see if things are good for this week. We dont have any other firm baptismal dates, one is a cool kid that was breaking almost every commandment known, and miraculously has somewhat changed his life around. He should get baptized in the next couple of weeks.

Next week we will have our zone conference and the week after that we will have transfers! We will see what happens. This week we had a huge miracle. Unfortuantely our ward is not very good when it comes to retention, so already we were seeing some of our recent converts fall away. One, who is called Juninho (ju-neen-yo) didnt go and we found out he said he didnt want to go anymore. We went over to the house where he always plays computer games and left the 3rd message about the gospel of jesus christ. Afterwards he left with us and we walked over to his house and as he gave up some water i told him his friend Jefferson (that kid who has lots of problems) had gone to church. Juninho felt really bad and we decided to go visit Jefferson. We all read the Book of Mormon together and afterward Juninho said the closing prayer (he hates doing it) and asked for forgiveniss and for help in doing the right things and keeping the commandments. It was amazing! THEN after that he asked me to help him write his testimony so he could bear it this Sunday. HOW AWESOME IS THAT!? Before he was saying he didnt want to go tochurch anymore… miracles happen!

I have been reading recently the teachings of the prophets books (old Sunday school manuals) and i am really learning alot about our past prophets. I made a goal in my life to read all of them. The church has SO MANY useful materials and many people dont take advantage of them. Today I read about Joseph F. Smith. He was shipped of when he was 16 to serve a mission ALONE in Hawaii! His first task was to learn the language and he said he could converse noramally with a Hawaiann after only a MONTH. THAT my friend is the gift of tounges. It is such a blessing to have a prophet of God on the earth today. I sometimes feel an ungrateful feeling. Sure we can say we are thanful for a latter day prophet, but how do we SHOW it? Do we actually pay attention to what he says and put those teachings into practice? I testify Thomas S. Monson is a prophet of God and through him we can know Gods will for us.

Have a wonderful week and BE A MISSIONARY! I promise many blessings from heaven to those who DO Gods sacred work. Want blessings? Then magnify your calling and share the gospel!

Love,

Elder Parker J. Boyack

By Parker | January 13, 2010 - 10:30 am - Posted in mission

Dear Everyone,

So i had like a bazillion emails and now I almost have no time to send a long letter!! Thanks all who send letters/emails to me, they REALLY help me out.

This week was full of rain and HEAT. I love it. You get out of the house sunny and hot and run in at night DRENCHED from the rain because you didnt bring an umbrella, so awesome!

This week was pretty intense. Some of our recent converts are struggling and we are really trying to help them and continue working with our investigators. It is hard stuff! Sundays are defeinitley the hardest.. SOOO MUCH stuff to do.

Yesterday we had a miracle in our area, but i was on a division! So i will tell you all about it next week when i really know WHAT happened haha cuz Elder Tenório tried to explain it to me but im still not really sure what happened. All I know is an eternal investigator decided she wants to be baptized!! Which is ALWAYS a wonderful thing :)

Well i am out of time, I need to go get a haircut then buy foooood, i keep eating it too fast haha!

I love you all, GO DO SOME MISSIONARY WORK!

Love,
Elder boyack

By Parker | January 6, 2010 - 10:34 am - Posted in mission

Dear Family and Friends,

So many things have been going thrugh my head these past weeks… i have no idea where to start or what to say. The weather gets hotter every day. I swear yesterday my shoes were melting to the sidewalk haha. Luckily brazillians have come up with two LIFESAVERS in this heat. They are known as “chup-chup” and “caldo de cana”. Chup-Chups are like homemade otterpops (popsicles). They are made with natural fruit and milk, and com in about every imaginable flavor, and the best part, they are dirt cheap! Caldo de cana is a delicious juice drawn from sugar cane, they run the sugar cane through a machine which squeezes out all the juice then they mix a little lime or pinapple to give it extra flavor. Needless to say I am loving brasil :)

The holidays were HARD especially here in the “litoral” (beach region) and our zones numbers were way low. BUT we are all pumped and working very hard and the results are already showing. We are doing a competition in the zone and some of the companionships are really kicking butt! Yesterday was a bonus day to see who could get the most lessons with member. I had THREE divisions marked and they all worked out but unfortuately hardly anyone was home or let us in.

One of the districts in the zone is having some problems keeping the rules, especially when it comes to managing our time wisely. For example one day they left the house at 1:30! So this past pday me and Elder Tenorio did a surprise visit AFTER pday was over and lets just say things were pretty ugly at their house (they all live together). So we had a VERY good talk and the spirit was really strong. For some reason most of them had lost their focus and forgotten why they were really here. We helped them to get pumped and to get back on track and they have really done a good job of improving. It was a very cool experience because sometimes the leader just lets it go or he just calls them and says dont do it again. That was something I learned with President… when someone is doing something wrong you NEED to correct them otherwise they wont respect you.

One thing i have been praying and fasting about is my testimony. No need to worry, I have a strong one!! But i realized how much more strong it needs to be. I guess i was satisfied with what I had and just didnt do much about it. One thing President taught us a few zone conferences ago was that the mission is the best place to build your testimony. Now is the BEST time I have to really develop christlike attributes. So in these next 6 months (HOLY COW) I am really working on always building my testimony and developíng my christlike attributes so that when I depart from this wonderful place, i will be prepared and ready to do my best in the real world.

It is so incredibly AMAZING as to how the gospel just makes sense! This HAS to be the true church, and I know by the power of the Holy Ghost that it IS. We truly are doing the Lords work and for that we will be blessed. It is by far the most difficult (fisically AND emotionally) thing I have ever done in my life and I am so grateful for this opportunity. I know Jesus Christ is our Savior and that He lives. He loves us so much we cant even understand it!

Today is my Moms birthday and I would like to publicly (i think thats how you spell it haha) express my love to her. I couldn´t have gotten to where I am without her. She is a huge example in my life and I am SO grateful she gets to live MANY more years here on this earth with us. I love you Mom and hope you have a very happy birthday! You will get your present in 6 months haha!!

Well I wish you all a Happy New Year and hope you have a great week! This year i challenge you to make at least ONE goal that relates to missionary work and I promise that it will bring you happiniess and peace in your life if you work hard at it all year. I love you all!!

Elder Boyack
Brasil Curitiba Mission

By Parker | December 31, 2009 - 10:04 am - Posted in mission

Family and Friends,

Happy 2010!! Wow… they call the year you spend on the mission your “black year” and mine hás come to an end! How crazy is that.. its a very weird feeling. I was looking at a 2010 calendar today and realized how close i am to coming home.. ahhh!!! Haha dont worry i am NOT getting trunky!

This week was great. It gets hotter every day. We have found some GOLDEN families recently and are focusing on them for now. Our teaching group is still pretty small but we are pushing for more.

We are doing a thing called the Paranaguá Cup where every companionship is a soccer team and then you get points depending on how hard you work during the week. Everyone here is really excited and pumped to win. We are looking forward to more baptisms! I am really excited for the new year.. we should be spending it at an irma´s house here close by. Sorry my letter is so short… ohnlny 30 minutes to write today! I promise next week it will be 3 times this size!

Have an amazing new years eve and day and make some good goals and STICK to them! I love you all and appreciate so much your support and prayers.

Falou!!

Elder Boyack

By Parker | December 23, 2009 - 10:21 am - Posted in mission
Well President gave us half an hour today to write a quick letter so here goes.
This week was crazy! It all started with the mission conference on Friday. Everything went very well and there was a beautiful choir. There are so many talented people in our mission! We ate a huuuuuge lunch then afterwards did a white elephant gift exchange thingy. We got some cool presents from President, WAY better than last year haha.
On Saturday we had 5 interviews for baptism marked but two didnt show up and we later found out they didnt want to get baptized anymore… lame. But the other three were great! They were all baptized on Sunday night and it was amazing. One was Pedro, the father of two recent converts (Nei and Flores). The other was Lucas, the little brother of Marlo who was baptized a few weeks ago. And the other is LEia, who completely changed her life!! She stopped smoking and going to the crazy dance parties. She is divorced and has two kids, and i got to baptize her! It was an amazing experience.
Then today is transfers!!!! I get to stay one more in the beautiful city of Paranaguá. I like it here… but its getting hotter every day :( I will be excited to go back to Curitiba where the weather is nice and cool.
Welll thats all the big news! I am SUPER excited for christmas and for the phone call home! YES!! I love you all and wish you all a merry christmas!
Love,
Elder Parker Boyack

Well President gave us half an hour today to write a quick letter so here goes.

This week was crazy! It all started with the mission conference on Friday. Everything went very well and there was a beautiful choir. There are so many talented people in our mission! We ate a huuuuuge lunch then afterwards did a white elephant gift exchange thingy. We got some cool presents from President, WAY better than last year haha.

On Saturday we had 5 interviews for baptism marked but two didnt show up and we later found out they didnt want to get baptized anymore… lame. But the other three were great! They were all baptized on Sunday night and it was amazing. One was Pedro, the father of two recent converts (Nei and Flores). The other was Lucas, the little brother of Marlo who was baptized a few weeks ago. And the other is LEia, who completely changed her life!! She stopped smoking and going to the crazy dance parties. She is divorced and has two kids, and i got to baptize her! It was an amazing experience.

Then today is transfers!!!! I get to stay one more in the beautiful city of Paranaguá. I like it here… but its getting hotter every day :( I will be excited to go back to Curitiba where the weather is nice and cool.

Welll thats all the big news! I am SUPER excited for christmas and for the phone call home! YES!! I love you all and wish you all a merry christmas!

Love,

Elder Parker Boyack

By Parker | December 16, 2009 - 2:06 pm - Posted in mission
Dear Everyone,
What a week! There is so much to say and so little time. The Lord has really been blessing us here in Paranaguá. On Saturday night when we were going in our door the bishop stopped us and asked us to give a talk on whatever we want. So i decided to talk about advesity :) Now you know how it is when you talk, about 50 percent of the people pay attention. But then in the middle of my talk i pulled out the letter Mom sent me telling how she had gotten cancer. I then explained about how Dad got laid off and how we all had a very hard time. I cried quite a bit haha. But it was a very good talk and I felt the spirit very strongly.
We were supposed to have a miracle baptism, her name is Leia. She completely stopped all of her bad habits, but the night before the baptismal interview she smoked :( So we postponed it for one week and last night we asked how she is feeling about this weekend and she said “ I WILL get baptized”. YES!!! She is so amazing.. she made the most delicious homemae]de bread, I couldnt stop eating it haha. We also have 4 other people who will be baptized this week, all of which are FIRME!! (thats firm in portuguese :) So like I said, we are being very blessed.
Today we went fishing with Jefferson, a ninteen year old we baptized two weeks ago. We were talking with him about serving a mission and then he said to us “I have been thinking about it… I am going to serve a mission.” WAHOOO!!!! That is probably the coolest thing a recent convert has said to me. Then when we asked him where he wants to go he said “Wherever I am sent”. HOLY COW!! That is so cool haha. Anyways i caught a teeny fish… I had like a million bites though…
Umm.. I am SUPER excited for the christmas call and mission conference.. I LOVE CHRISTMAS! What a wonderful time of year. Our city (Paranaguá) has gone NUTS on Christmas decorations… they are everywhere! Oh and some really good news, they redid our road today!! Haha the road in front of our house had TONS of potholes and trucks always pass by… it was really annoying. So today they redid the pavement and it is soooo much better.
Anyways.. life is good. We are baptizing, what more can i ask for? Our zone is doing very well and all the missionaries are working hard. I am satisfied :) I know this is the work of the Lord, and that he helps us. There are so many prepared people out there in the world just waiting for the truth. So, share the gospel! This season is the BEST time to do it. I know you can do it and the Lord will help you.
I love you all, have a grrrrreat week! Mom, Dad, I will talk to you next week!!!
Love,
Elder Boyack

Dear Everyone,

What a week! There is so much to say and so little time. The Lord has really been blessing us here in Paranaguá. On Saturday night when we were going in our door the bishop stopped us and asked us to give a talk on whatever we want. So i decided to talk about advesity :) Now you know how it is when you talk, about 50 percent of the people pay attention. But then in the middle of my talk i pulled out the letter Mom sent me telling how she had gotten cancer. I then explained about how Dad got laid off and how we all had a very hard time. I cried quite a bit haha. But it was a very good talk and I felt the spirit very strongly.

We were supposed to have a miracle baptism, her name is Leia. She completely stopped all of her bad habits, but the night before the baptismal interview she smoked :( So we postponed it for one week and last night we asked how she is feeling about this weekend and she said “ I WILL get baptized”. YES!!! She is so amazing.. she made the most delicious homemae]de bread, I couldnt stop eating it haha. We also have 4 other people who will be baptized this week, all of which are FIRME!! (thats firm in portuguese :) So like I said, we are being very blessed.

Today we went fishing with Jefferson, a ninteen year old we baptized two weeks ago. We were talking with him about serving a mission and then he said to us “I have been thinking about it… I am going to serve a mission.” WAHOOO!!!! That is probably the coolest thing a recent convert has said to me. Then when we asked him where he wants to go he said “Wherever I am sent”. HOLY COW!! That is so cool haha. Anyways i caught a teeny fish… I had like a million bites though…

Umm.. I am SUPER excited for the christmas call and mission conference.. I LOVE CHRISTMAS! What a wonderful time of year. Our city (Paranaguá) has gone NUTS on Christmas decorations… they are everywhere! Oh and some really good news, they redid our road today!! Haha the road in front of our house had TONS of potholes and trucks always pass by… it was really annoying. So today they redid the pavement and it is soooo much better.

Anyways.. life is good. We are baptizing, what more can i ask for? Our zone is doing very well and all the missionaries are working hard. I am satisfied :) I know this is the work of the Lord, and that he helps us. There are so many prepared people out there in the world just waiting for the truth. So, share the gospel! This season is the BEST time to do it. I know you can do it and the Lord will help you.

I love you all, have a grrrrreat week! Mom, Dad, I will talk to you next week!!!

Love,

Elder Boyack

By Parker | December 9, 2009 - 10:27 am - Posted in mission

Dear Everyone,

Yo, whats up. How are the states?? Man people her bag so much on America its kind of annoying. But its all good, I bag on Brasil a lot :) The weather here has been nice. I have been caught a few times by the rain without an umbrella, but I enjoy a shower once in a while. The heat has yet to come! The next transfer is Dec. 23 so we will see if i escape the Paranaguá heat.. probably not.

Things are going great. This past week we had a baptism, its a guy named Jefferson. He is 19 and truly an elect. He plays VERY good soccer and was going to our chapel to play on Wednesdays then we started teaching him the lessons. He is doing very well and I got to baptize him! (see attached picture). This next week we are hoping to baptize Pedro, he is the dad of Nei and flores, two recent converts. I had a good talk with him yesterday and he said he is not happy in his life. I told him that we have what he needs, and the only way he can find tru happiness in this life and in the next is by being baptized and following the gospel of Jesus Christ. Unfortunately he has not been able to completely let go of cigarettes… but we are working with him on that.

SPEAKING OF CIGARETTES… hbaha so we are helping these two sisters (both a little older and with a couple kids) to stop smoking. They both really like the church and want to stop smoking, drinking, etc. And find a nice husband who wont betray them. So we  bought a butt load of oranges, vitamen C pills, and then plastered their house wiht 3×5 cards with little do not smoke messages.. its awesome! One stopped smoking AND drinking coffee and the other is having some difficulties… its quite a challenge!!

Today we went to a rest home to spend some time with the older persons of Paranaguá. It was awesome! We sang to them and talked with them. To be honest, i am not so much scared to get old.. I am more worried about getting my life all in order so I can be old and be happy. These poor people are a mess. One guy kept crying when I talked about his family and other things.. I felt it was better to let him just watch TV then make him remember his home and start crying!! So I have decided I am going to start preparing myself so when I am old everything will be all figured out and I can just rest and not have any worries. I asked my friend missionary Elder C. Williams if he thought old people or children required more patience.. we decdided old people haha.

Well not much more to write about… life is good! Next week we will have the mission christmas conference, I CANT WAIT!! It will be amazing. I have really been working on being appriciative for every day I have on the mission. I am going to think back about if only I could just have one more day…. SO I am focusing on taking advantage of EACH day. This could also be applied to our lives. We have so few days here on the earth. This is a time of preparation. We need to use each day for GOOD and not waste time.

Have a grrrrreat week! I love you all and appriciate so much the support and prayers. Keep it up!!

Elder Parker Boyack

By Parker | December 2, 2009 - 10:42 am - Posted in mission

Dear Everyone,

Hello! I am in a really good mood :) I always love this part of the misson. There are so many emotions so its always nice when I am happy haha. Today its crazy hot. I don’t stop sweating. And to top it all off, our fan broke!! Hooray!! HAha but I am over it. I have learned that the principle of “ask and ye shall receive” is true. 4 TIMES I have asked for rain/wind/cold weather and the Lord gave it to me. Its quite amazing.

Things are starting to pick up here is PAranaguá. After those four baptisms we had in October, we had nothing to work with. Then we started working a lot with the friends/neighbors/family of Nei and Flores, two amazing boys we baptized. This past week we baptized two of their friends Juninho and MArlo. It was a great experience but there was a problem with the heater so the water was boiling hot. We had to fill up buckets with cold water to make the water colder and finally got it to a “bearable” temperature… quite hilarious. This next week we will baptize another dude called Jefferson who is amazing.. he read, he prayed, he went to church, and got an answer that this church is true. That’s all you need to do! Read, Pray, and go to church. It works!!

We have been focusing on baptizing every week and the Lord has been blessing us. I have also been working hard to get rid of my bad habits. I wasn´t using every minute as best as I could, and now I am trying to not waste a single minute. Its awesome!! I am reading a book mom sent me by Henry B. Eyering, its so good! I cant remember what its called though haha.

So I totally agree with what Ryan said. “Thing that drives me crazy is the unawareness that the members have with recent converts. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE, when sacrament meeting starts, look to see if there is someone sitting alone (recent-convert, investigator, inactive) and sit with them. It will help soo much. I have run into a lot of people who have said, “I always wanted to go back to church, but I juts don’t feel welcome there” DO NOT let that happen.” SO true. We need to leave our comfort zone to make these people feel welcome. The best way to make a person feel welcome at church is when people talk to them and make them feel welcome. There is no better way.

We too had our primary presentation as did Ryan. Twin Peaks ward DEFEINTLEY has the best primary, but it was good here too. I am saddened to see here how some people do not fulfill their callings. For example when there is a meeting and every organization should be present, usually it’s the bishopbric, the Elders, and make the High preist quorum president. People just don’t take their responsabilites seriously and it will be sad when they have to report to Jesus Christ how they did. So the challenges of the week are:

1.      Talk to the missionaries and see who they would like you to sit with/talk to.
2.      FULFILL your calling. Ask your bishop what you can do better and seek the guidance of the Holy Ghost.

Have a great week and be happy!!!

Love,
Elder Parker Boyack

Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none. ~William Shakespeare